When all is right with the world, loving others during difficult times is not so hard. In fact, it's pretty easy. When things are going well, it's easy enough to call and offer a friend encouragement. It's easy to check on a family member and maybe take someone a meal. It's not so hard to forgive someone when life is going well and the future looks bright.
What about during the difficult times? When things are not going so well, we might find it a little harder to forgive a hurt. It's a little bit harder to call a friend. I mean, how can we offer encouragement when we need it ourselves? It's just hard sometimes.
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The times when we feel the most useless is when God can use us the most. Let's try to use the difficult times as learning experiences. I've been through difficult times. Most of us have. I remember my needs. I remember the things others did to encourage me through my darkest days. I use those memories as a guide to help me know what to do when others suffer.
Gini at Dayspring Cards and Gifts has written a wonderful post about loving others during difficult times.
Loving in the Tough Times
by Gini at Dayspring
Then, something happens - you suddenly lose a loved one, get laid off from work, become diagnosed with a serious illness, or experience an unwanted life-changing event - all of which brings your seamless balancing act to an abrupt halt. And, you find yourself curled up in bed, no longer caring about routines or activities and the last thing on your mind is dinner. During these times, it’s easy to isolate yourself by pushing your loved ones away, [Read more . . . ]